An acquaintance of mine has been participating in some extra curricular activities with someone she shouldn't be. At this point it's an open secret-- facebook don't lie [Miss Cleo voice]-- but her girl doesn't know or chooses to ignore, I'm not sure which. Now a few nights ago I got a text asking me if I could say we had hung out on such n such a day if her girl asked to which I replied I couldn't. I said I couldn't not because my personal ethical code wouldn't let me, but because I was simply out of state which was something that could be verified easily --again facebook don't lie--.
So my question is thus, would you or would you not lie if such a matter were presented to you? Tweet back or comment or smoke signal... whatever works for ya.
Nope, I would tell her look for some other accomplice. As much as your can't tell people how to live their lives and I don't give unsolicited advice, I would not tell her not to do what she was doing, but just don't involve me.
ReplyDeleteI would NOT want to get involved. I would definitely say no.
ReplyDeleteOh my god Ty please don't help this woman to lie to her girlfriend. It's one thing to be a non judgemental friend who just observes quietly from the side, which I have done many times and tried not to get involved (which is an of itself has some moral implications I won't get into), but if you lie for her, to her lover, you are as responsible for her cheating as she is. You are messing with someone's version of reality. It's a HUGE deal.... don't do it homie.
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